Hi Jacqueline,

I am doing a red candle love spell on this gut I am seeing. We get together, then we don’t see each other for a few days, then we are together again. This is the reason I am doing to love spell. I want him around all the time. I read on here that I am to use pink candles and not red ones. Why is that? Please explain what I am doing wrong.

Thank you

Caprice

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Thank you for a good question. In my experience and education, a red candle is energetic and that energy is quick and all-consuming. Like a fire, it burns through anything fast! Red candles are used to “energize” a candle spell – for instance, when you need money in a hurry, you use a red candle or add a red candle to a green candle spell to give it a little more sense of urgency.  In matters of love, red candles are considered to bring on the intimacy, but that might not be enough to keep him around after the lovin’ is over. Red candles are considered strictly to bring on a sexual element to your affair.

By using a pink candle, you are allowing peace, clarity and calmness to enter the relationship – you just can’t base a long lasting relationship on the physical alone. You need to get to know each others’ moods, knowledge, insight, courage, strength – all that are endearing qualities that make someone want to spend their life with you.

So does this mean that pink candles won’t bring on the steamy sessions in the bedroom? No – but your lovemaking will be more playful and tender, and you may see that he is not so “in a hurry” to run out the door!

Now,  since you did not give much details,  I AM assuming here that there has been some intimacy in your time together, but if it has not happened yet, then the pink candles will want him to stick around to “get to know you”, and not view you as just a “booty call”.

Use“Come to Me”, “Fire of Love”Anointing Oils to draw him back to you and “Adam and Eve”Anointing Oil to bring in sweetness on your pink candles.

Greetings!

As a continuing effort for your the reader to be informed of techniques on good, quality candle spells that have produced results, I open my pages to you to submit candles spells that have worked for you and could easily be adapted for another person’s intent and efforts.

So I get this candle spell in the e-mail from a reader:

A SPELL TO GRANT 3 WISHES
PUT THREE candles in the highest place you have at home, inside a plate with sugar all around the candles. Light the candles. Ask for three wishes to your guardian angels ST.RAFAEL , ST.MICHAEL and ST.GABRIEL. Ask one wish for business, one wish for love and an impossible wish. Publish this spell on the third day (after you requested the wishes) and see what happens on the fourth day…

This has been circulating about the Internet for about as long as I can remember and it an example of what I will not publish (just doing so here to show an example). This is an example of a spell that will not be published as I have no personal reference in it from the reader and since it appears that the sender did not ‘test drive’ it (no data entered to inform me), I will not publish it as someone else’s candle spell. Sorry.

I am asking you to construct and test drive a real candle spell, not something copied off the Internet and actually tells us why you did the spell, what happened with the candles, etc. I want to have you tell our readers about the outcome. Did it work? Not work? Why?

If you DO have an authentic, original candle spell that you would like to share, or even have someone review your steps and question as to why it did not perform as you wanted to, please submit these on our contact form under “PAGES” category on the right hand side of this page.

Perhaps one of the things that I have never heard about until recently despite all my years of candle burning is the occurrence of a “Black Moon”. This is not something out of a science fiction magazine or fairy tale; a second New Moon that occurs during a 30 day month or under the guise of an astrological sign is called a Black Moon.

Obscure, it is said to open portals to other dimensions parallel to ours and is known by those who practice ceremonial magick. It is said that contact with ghosts, fairies and the Ascended Masters can be easy during this Moon. I have been told that those who practice the Wiccan religious belief system are aware of this very rare occurence.

The special event known as a double New Moon or “Black Moon” is associated with using your consciousness in an altered state, so that you are aware of hidden knowledge is attainable for you. It has been said that creating a ‘Wish List” petition of ten entries on what you would like to obtain or attain should be constructed during the first eight hours of the Black Moon’s lunation time. To Wiccans, the second New Moon is an especially powerful time to cast spells.

The next Black Moon will occur on July 31, 2011 in the astrological sign of Leo.