A reader asks for help. (This letter has been corrected for spelling errors)

Hi Jacqueline,

My soon to be ex-husband is making my life crap.   I’ve been separated for nearly 3 years and he still has a hold over my emotions!! We have a gorgeous little girl of 4 yrs. I left him due to his controlling behavior & drinking. I’ve burned umpteen bits of paper with hope of moving on to no avail. I’ve bought a black candle as last resort & I am going to get the separation agreement (copy) and write something on it in hope of him finding another love to move on and to stop him tormenting me.

Please help xx

Louise (last name removed to protect the family)

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Louise,

You are on the right track but a bit off – like a recipe that is lacking something. First, if he is not living with you, then he cannot bother you. You must clarify something because first you say he is your soon to be ex, meaning that things are already going through the courts, then the separation papers…so I am confused on the legal matters.

The only reason why you would want to burn a black candle on the papers is to get the job DONE – so the question is: who is stalling the process? If he is controlling, and he is not living with you, how can he control you?

Let me give you two scenarios and things that you can do for the situation:

Situation Number One: (he is living with you while you are getting the divorce) - Get your own apartment. If this is not financially feasible, move in with family. You need to physically get away from him as much as possible in order for any candle spell to work.

If this is not possible – force him to move. Get a few wasps nests, some burnt charcoal, red crushed peppers, dirt from a grave and doggie doo-doo (yes, I am serious), dry it out in the sun, making sure you spend a few minutes a day with a magnifying glass focused on the mixture and curse the debil our of it and sprinkle it in his shoes, the floor board of his car or truck, in his bed (the bed you DO NOT sleep in) and wait for him to leave.  If this is just too funky for you to do, get some Run, Devil, Run Condition Oil and sprinkle it in his shoes every day when he is not using them. Burn the same oil on a red and a black glass candle with his picture wedged in between them. Spend some time every day standing in front of the candle cursing and swearing at it (as if the candles were really him); telling him to hit the road, Jack.

Use brown court case candles on top of a copy (not the original) of the Court documents. You can anoint this with a little Crown of Success Anointing Oil and sprinkle a little tobacco in around the top of the candle. Make sure you follow directions on proper cleaning and anointing of your candles.

Situation Number Two: (you are living elsewhere but the divorce is not going anywhere) – Time to put on the ‘brass brassiere” and get to work!  You must attend each and every Court proceeding and appear to want to ‘make peace’ with the other party – ESPECIALLY WHEN THERE IS A CHILD INVOLVED – each parent has to have some time with the child – unless you or he is selling arms to the terrorists, selling drugs or running a whorehouse – each of you are responsible for the raising of that child. So, if the Courts ask you to improve your lot in life – get a job or go to school. If he is the deadbeat, do everything you can to tie him up financially – a lien on the house (if he owns one), keep your ‘feelers’ out there to hear if he has a job and TURN HIM IN to the County agency handling the child support issues.

REMEMBER: You must take the ‘high moral ground’ and don’t play the child against the father (called Parental Alienation) – the mediators see right through that (that is why they have Master and PhD’s). They will look favorably on you if you are trying to ‘be fair’ (bite your tongue) with the other parent. You loved him at one time enough to bring a child into this world and worse case scenario, if something happens to you, HE is the one who gets custody of the child (not your Mother or Sister). He is the first line blood relative of your child.

Here’s a novel idea (hold your pants on and listen); wish him SUCCESS. Think about it. If he is successful, you always will get child support and he will be so busy working that he has no time to go to Court with you. Use a yellow candle in glass with “Crown of Success” or “Crowning Glory” Anointing Oil in it with his name on a piece of paper under the candle.

Bottom line, if you want the proceedings to move forward, burn a red glass candle on a copy of the Court papers with “FAST LUCK” Condition Oil so that things will get moving and you can then begin a new life.

Tough decisions, but ones you have to make. I wish you all the Luck.

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A reader writes:

Hi Jacqueline,
I have a question about what spell or spells I should use to get my ex-husband to pay child support. Here is a little more about the situation. I have a restraining order on my ex-husband, which he has violated many times. I have an open case with child support service and he is on locate status. I have some information on where he is living and that he may very well be working. The problem is that if I report it and child support services finds him and makes him pay I don’t want him coming after me or the children. He knows where I work, but not where I live. He has violent tendencies, this guy is really not right in the head. All I want is the child support for my children, so I can better provide for them and I want the ex-husband to stay far away from us and leave us alone.
Thank you for your time and help. Let me know if you need any more info from me.

Suzanne

Before we talk about candles, why do you think he would know that it was from you that the child support services would locate him? Remember, employers are required to report all employees wages in three month blocks of time. Not only that, does he have proof that maybe a detective didn’t find him? No, but of course, he will think it was you turning him in. Pity the poor fool because once you procreate then you pay until that child is 18 years old. Period. ‘Nuff said. Now, will he understand that, maybe not. He has ‘vendetta’ in his mind – you towards him and he towards getting you back. I, as a mother, have walked down this path and am still continuing to do so, so i know.

One little bit of relief is that these dollar figures roll over each month WITH INTEREST, but that doesn’t help with the childrens’ needs  right now. That’s OK with me, because I know he is dumb enough to ‘surface’ in about three years, when our last child turns 18, and then I will have a few years of Federal Income Tax being captured to reimburse me for all my efforts. Remember, you may wait for the money but you’ll get the money eventually. I was told by one representative that an elderly lady brought in a $65,000 check to the office, claiming ‘ it must have been a mistake’. They told her that her ex had sold his house, and since they had a lien on the property, captured her money before he got the final check. The clerk told me that the lady said her children were in their thirties and she didn’t know what to do with it. The clerk said she was told to go on a long vacation. The lady balked a bit but then was given the suggestion to spend a little but then set up college funds for the grandchildren. Obviously, the lady ‘made do’ or ‘got by’ with what she made on her own, but this was her money since she sacrificed for so many years while ex went on his merry way.

Regarding the restraining order, you need to call the police EACH AND EVERY TIME he violates – and you had better not be luring him into a trap by calling him over. Once he has violated enough, harsher charges will be levied against him. Alert the security personnel at your place of employment and call the police – become a pest, if need be – if he comes to your job. You cannot lose your job because of his foolishness.

Now, onto candles. You may take the copy of the child support order and make copies of it at your local Kinko’s and burn black 7-day novena or vigil type glass encased candles on it.  Why black? Because you want to make his life hell until he pays. Ths is how it is done:

Take the copy of the Child Support Order (not the original) and turn the paper long ways horizontally, so that you will be crossing up the typewritten notes. Write what ever curse you want on it BUT do not wish death, because death is the end of your child support. Now ironically, wishing him prosperity and all the good things in life ‘switches it up’ because the more money he makes the more money YOU GET!  Crazy, but true! All of a sudden he gets a good job, buys a house (which should have a lien placed on it) and credit up the yin-yang. YEAH! More information to collect and more money to show that he has the means to pay his child support.

OK, so if you want to do the “Let Howie have all the good things in life” methodology, then use RED candles in glass. If you want to just curse the bum, then use BLACK.

If you want to ‘turn it up a notch’, use “Fast Luck” condition oil on the red candle or “D.U.M.E.” (“Do Unto My Enemies”) anointing oil on the black candles.

Continue burning these candle and reporting him with any information you have to get your due. The kids deserve it.

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Needing $25,000 by tomorrow? Not going to happen. No way in Hades. Remember, no amount of candles is going to get you out of THAT seriously deep financial doo-doo. It took time to get in that deep, and it takes time to get out. Cautious spending, sending a tithe or two to a favorite charity and living RIGHT is the way to a prosperous life. Take a moment to look at your lifestyle. Are you spending to impress? Eating out too much? Buying everything in sight to keep the kids off your back? Learn to make do, use it up, wear it out and ask for discernment in purchasing. Here is a billfold and wallet blessing from a great man, Mr. Keys of the Mystic Candle Shop here in Sacramento, CA. It goes like this:

MUSTARD SEED OF FAITH

Bless this billfold, Lord, I pray,

Replenish it from day to day.

Give me Faith, as a Mustard Seed;

That I may harvest all I need.

Help me earn and wisely spend, Show me what to buy and what to lend.

Thank you Lord, for blessing me, and sending me Prosperity.

Supply me now and evermore,

From Thy vast abundant store.

In the name of Jesus, AMEN

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Yesterday, I received this e-mail from a reader, who is seeking a little help with some legal problems. The e-mail reads:

I am having major problems with my law suit Please help me.

Sincerely,

Wendy

The issue at hand is not the law suit but the lack of information that we have in order to begin to help. Like going to the doctor and saying that you “don’ t feel well”, you need to give the doctor some specifics to diagnose the cause of the illness before prescribing a cure. Any professional, qualified magical practitioner would expect a bit more information than what is being offered here.

The traditional items used on Court Case Spells involve the use of Brown Candles and a root called Little John to Chew. It is important to give your spiritual practitioner all information regarding the case, including if you are guilty or not. There is a reason for full disclosure.

There are other people involved, your immediate family or circle of friends, the other person, the judicial system and lawyers and even Lady Justice herself – how could you possibly ask for a positive outcome for you if you may well be a fault.

Let me give you an example, many years ago, my ex kept trying to whittle my custody time with our children down to nil. Why? He didn’t want to pay a very nominal amount of child support; out of spite, of course. I never asked that he sell the house and give me half – hell, I even GAVE him my flower shop that he invested in – all in the name of having my freedom.

His lawyer thought he was slick - complaining that my living at my boyfriend’s house rent free constituted it being an “income”, the very young Judge erroneously ruled in my ex’s favor – that I pay HIM child support. OK …Ok…. but, I knew I was right.

At the time I was learning magical practices that were traditional hoodoo, conjure and root work at the time. I took the cash money that I was to deposit at the office of child support payments and urinated on a small part of it – then wiped it dry, exited the bathroom of the building and handed it over to the clerk. The belief system is that you “mark” you money with your “scent” or urine, so that it will return to you because it is yours.

Well, the clerk of that office applied it to the WRONG account (an old revenue account of mine) AND credited my child support account with the payment, despite me telling them they were accounting for the money wrong – they waived it and I got doubly credited for the amount on both accounts! At the next court hearing, the Judge quickly reversed his previous ruling after he saw that I was going to go take his ruling to the next level – the Appellate Court.

While this example is not a candle spell, it serves as one example where Justice was served because I was in the right and justified from the onset.

Another thing to consider is to have a reading done by a qualified reader - in order to use divination to see if their are more things going on in the background that is not being seen by the client.

Please send us more information before we begin to even prescribe herbs, oil, and candles to bring aobut your desired outcome.