I am frequently asked on the telephone what additives to put in a honey jar to sweeten someone for love and romance in relationships. Most of you do not have access to ‘exotic’ herb stores where you will find obscure powders and roots, so I have combined a list of herbs, spices and that you can pick up from your local neighborhood store. You would be surprised how many we used in everyday cooking and how we ‘enchant’ the ones we love every time we open the oven door!

Here is a list of some common herbs and spices that you can place in your Honey Jar Spell:

Rosemary – for empowering the woman in he relationship; upper hand in the family decisions.

Rose Petals - romantic love and sexual attractiveness; make the heart of the intended soften towards them.

Red Pepper – just a little will “heat things up” passionately.

Cinnamon – traditional love drawing spice; gives a ‘warm radiance” to the feelings you receive from intended.

Ginger – another fiery root that “heats things up” between a couple.

Catnip – the herb felines love the most; make a woman “intoxicating” to a man.

Sage - Gives a woman strength to conqueror a man.

Cherry Bark – said to get you “what you want” in love and physical relationships.

Cardamom – reputed to bring good luck in love affairs and those intimate times.

Apple – used in particular love spell as a receptacle to hold other ingredients for couples to get along with each other

Vanilla – when placed in sugar, it encourages all that eat the sugar to ‘be sweet’.

Tea – yes, the camellia thea leaf we love to drink! A special brew with a woman’s soiled underwear keeps her man around.

Orange –  the fruit of the Yoruba goddess of love and sexuality, dried peel can go into the honey jar to get married.

Bay Leaves – promotes a long, happy marriage.

Caraway – said to keep a partner faithful.

Dill – reputed to restore sexual vigor and desire and break love jinxes.

Hibiscus – use to decorate around the honey jar as an offering to the Chuparosa Hummingbird of Love.

Lemon Grass -is said to heighten romance and sexual pleasure.

Licorice – can be used in a mojo bag to control you love.

Clove – use to draw someone closer

Marjoram –  use for peace and happiness in the family

Hi Jacqueline!

Just wanted to show you a pic of this trabajo (“job” in spanish) I’m doing as I told you before its dedicated to Ochun. I lit a yellow candle, put it on top of the jar and tied a yellow and pink ribbon around the cap of the jar then prayed to Ochun to bring my boyfriend back to me. I did it for 25 consecutive days. He did come back but we argued, fought and he left once again. Now he’s gone again and I haven’t heard from him in a few days, so now I’m doing the 4 caminos (“roads” in Spanish or more likely “crossroads”) which would be 3 more sets. This would keep him from leaving. So now I tied the ribbon on the opposite side. when I’m done with the three sets its going to look like a cross.

Right now I’m on about my seventh day, now what freaked me out was that after I took an Oshun bath I started praying to her in front of the candle. The flame was extremely high then it parted into 2 seperate wicks with 2 high flames. As they were burning, the flames became so small then the main wick turned off. After the 2nd flame turned off, I turned the candle on again. Also, if you look closely at the pics, you can see specks in the mirror which is actually candle wax splattered from just seven days of burning them.

Jacqueline please tell me what you think… I know it’s not good.. I feel there’s a negative force that is tearing my boyfreind and me apart. I don’t believe that Oshun is against bringing us back together. The candles I’ve been burning have been burning faster than usual and it usually leaves a wax residue. I just think that someone else might be doing something against my boyfriend and me. Tt’s really scary to actually see a flame just shut off with nothing triggering it. Do you have any specific candles for my case? Any recommendations at all?

Roselyn
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Jacqueline,

Many years ago, I prepared a honey jar spell. Can I use the same one for the same person or should I prepare a new one?

Thank you for your help
Becky
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Yes if the basic feelings are still the same. You can ‘re-work’ it. Here is an example.

You meet Johnny and even if he is the ‘Leader of the Pack’, you love him so and want to be with him forever. You create a Honey Jar. You do your ‘thang’ with it and you get Johnny to park the motorcycle and put a ring on your finger. All is well in wedded bliss.

Then, maybe after a car, home and a few little Johnnys running around, you fall into a ‘love rut’ and you want to rekindle that hot and heavy stuff going on in the back of your Daddy’s T-Bird (convertible, no less!). You take out your original items, rinse it off in running water, keep everything that you can (cinnamon stick, petition paper, lodestones, photo or lick of hair – whatever) and rinse the honey down the drain.

Now re-write the petition paper, add new herbs, if necessary, maybe a fresh hair lock (nail clipping, soiled sexual fluid tissue) fresh honey and reseal. Please in fire-safe plate, cereal bowl or dish and burn candles as before.

Voila! Just make sure you don’t want any more little Johnnnys running around!

Now, if ya want to ‘kill tha bum’, don’t use it. If love is gone, and you got to start doing revenge work or child support candle work, take the original honey jar to the river, uncap, rinse in river water, undo everything (binding, strings, fish hooks) and release everything into the river (photos, lodestones, honey – all of it). Moving water carries it away (old tradition).

Good question and Good Luck!