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Honey Jar Spells | Kitchen Spices and Such for a Love Honey Jar

admin — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 14:20:36 +0000

I am frequently asked on the telephone what additives to put in a honey jar to sweeten someone for love and romance in relationships. Most of you do not have access to ‘exotic’ herb stores where you will find obscure powders and roots, so I have combined a list of herbs, spices and that you can pick up from your local neighborhood store. You would be surprised how many we used in everyday cooking and how we ‘enchant’ the ones we love every time we open the oven door!

Here is a list of some common herbs and spices that you can place in your Honey Jar Spell:

Rosemary – for empowering the woman in he relationship; upper hand in the family decisions.

Rose Petals - romantic love and sexual attractiveness; make the heart of the intended soften towards them.

Red Pepper – just a little will “heat things up” passionately.

Cinnamon – traditional love drawing spice; gives a ‘warm radiance” to the feelings you receive from intended.

Ginger – another fiery root that “heats things up” between a couple.

Catnip – the herb felines love the most; make a woman “intoxicating” to a man.

Sage - Gives a woman strength to conqueror a man.

Cherry Bark – said to get you “what you want” in love and physical relationships.

Cardamom – reputed to bring good luck in love affairs and those intimate times.

Apple – used in particular love spell as a receptacle to hold other ingredients for couples to get along with each other

Vanilla – when placed in sugar, it encourages all that eat the sugar to ‘be sweet’.

Tea – yes, the camellia thea leaf we love to drink! A special brew with a woman’s soiled underwear keeps her man around.

Orange – the fruit of the Yoruba goddess of love and sexuality, dried peel can go into the honey jar to get married.

Bay Leaves – promotes a long, happy marriage.

Caraway – said to keep a partner faithful.

Dill – reputed to restore sexual vigor and desire and break love jinxes.

Hibiscus – use to decorate around the honey jar as an offering to the Chuparosa Hummingbird of Love.

Lemon Grass -is said to heighten romance and sexual pleasure.

Licorice – can be used in a mojo bag to control you love.

Clove – use to draw someone closer

Marjoram – use for peace and happiness in the family

Reader Questions | Yellow Ochun Candle Spell Results?

admin — Fri, 24 Jul 2009 01:00:39 +0000

Hi Jacqueline!

Just wanted to show you a pic of this trabajo (“job” in spanish) I’m doing as I told you before its dedicated to Ochun. I lit a yellow candle, put it on top of the jar and tied a yellow and pink ribbon around the cap of the jar then prayed to Ochun to bring my boyfriend back to me. I did it for 25 consecutive days. He did come back but we argued, fought and he left once again. Now he’s gone again and I haven’t heard from him in a few days, so now I’m doing the 4 caminos (“roads” in Spanish or more likely “crossroads”) which would be 3 more sets. This would keep him from leaving. So now I tied the ribbon on the opposite side. when I’m done with the three sets its going to look like a cross.

Right now I’m on about my seventh day, now what freaked me out was that after I took an Oshun bath I started praying to her in front of the candle. The flame was extremely high then it parted into 2 seperate wicks with 2 high flames. As they were burning, the flames became so small then the main wick turned off. After the 2nd flame turned off, I turned the candle on again. Also, if you look closely at the pics, you can see specks in the mirror which is actually candle wax splattered from just seven days of burning them.

Jacqueline please tell me what you think… I know it’s not good.. I feel there’s a negative force that is tearing my boyfreind and me apart. I don’t believe that Oshun is against bringing us back together. The candles I’ve been burning have been burning faster than usual and it usually leaves a wax residue. I just think that someone else might be doing something against my boyfriend and me. Tt’s really scary to actually see a flame just shut off with nothing triggering it. Do you have any specific candles for my case? Any recommendations at all?

Roselyn
(letter edited for grammatical errors)

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Thank you for all the pictures, but they neve came through! Now, here’s my thoughts.

First, honey jars are not Santeria/Lukumi/Ifa religious based, so my question here is this: Why are you mixing a traditional hoodoo/conjure/rootwork spell (the honey jar) with a goddess/deity of an African religion?

Secondly, what is the “4 Cuatros” (4 Corners) Spell at the crossroads? Why would someone petition Ellegua (Guardian of the Crossroads) for love? Ellegua is for making decisions that you can live with. For example, I was living in one state and hesitant about staying or moving back to my original sate I lived for many years. I did not know what to do. I did a spell at the crossroads to tell Ellegua to ‘open my paths’ and guide me to the best way and, I would accpet the decision as I relinquished all powers of discernment on this subject to him. I moved within a month. Done deal.

It makes me want to jump up and down in my office when I see the Saints/Santos/Orichas (spelled correctly) petitioned without any knowledge for which is the Orichas’ jurisdiction. Unless it was explained to me wrong – and I will give this inch of doubt – unless your spiritual worker was telling you, “Hey! Let’s do a spell for Ellegua at the crossroads and let HIM decide whether you two should be together or not -AND put to boot to your jeans back pockets or his, to see where you’ll end up”. THAT might have been their intention – whether or not it was explained to you or not.

Again readers, this is a good case for sticking with one spiritual worker until you see or do not see results – then going ahead and say to them “Thank you for your time.” and move on and question – not to question while still working with them. Pitting one worker against another by doubting one and talking about or questioning their motives behind their backs is not good.

I have sent many people back to their spiritual worker that they are currently with until they get a feeling it isn’t working, then come see me. Again, spellwork takes time and unfortunately, I say daily, this is not Burger King where you ‘have it your way’ and in a minute and a half.

You are right in one manner – Ochun does appear to not want the two of you together. Now it is up to you to accept it and move on – with Faith – that there is something ‘out there’ that is your destiny.

Please remember, if there is a child or children involved, you will meet and greet this person for the rest of your lives – like the guy in Outkast said “Graduation and the First Day of School” – but don’t forget the childs’ wedding day and births of grandchildren.

Good Luck and keep us posted.

Readers Questions | Can I Re-Use a Honey Jar?

admin — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 15:23:59 +0000

Jacqueline,

Many years ago, I prepared a honey jar spell. Can I use the same one for the same person or should I prepare a new one?

Thank you for your help
Becky
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Yes if the basic feelings are still the same. You can ‘re-work’ it. Here is an example.

You meet Johnny and even if he is the ‘Leader of the Pack’, you love him so and want to be with him forever. You create a Honey Jar. You do your ‘thang’ with it and you get Johnny to park the motorcycle and put a ring on your finger. All is well in wedded bliss.

Then, maybe after a car, home and a few little Johnnys running around, you fall into a ‘love rut’ and you want to rekindle that hot and heavy stuff going on in the back of your Daddy’s T-Bird (convertible, no less!). You take out your original items, rinse it off in running water, keep everything that you can (cinnamon stick, petition paper, lodestones, photo or lick of hair – whatever) and rinse the honey down the drain.

Now re-write the petition paper, add new herbs, if necessary, maybe a fresh hair lock (nail clipping, soiled sexual fluid tissue) fresh honey and reseal. Please in fire-safe plate, cereal bowl or dish and burn candles as before.

Voila! Just make sure you don’t want any more little Johnnnys running around!

Now, if ya want to ‘kill tha bum’, don’t use it. If love is gone, and you got to start doing revenge work or child support candle work, take the original honey jar to the river, uncap, rinse in river water, undo everything (binding, strings, fish hooks) and release everything into the river (photos, lodestones, honey – all of it). Moving water carries it away (old tradition).

Good question and Good Luck!

Readers Question – Mixing Traditions with Honey Jars and Candle Spells

admin — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 14:07:20 +0000

Readers, you be the judge!

Hi Jacqueline!

i lit up a candle for a love binding. the candle goes on top of a jar filled with honey, plant root, herbs, sand and cut out personal belongings such as pubic hair, pictures, pillow case to say the least… the work is for oshun. today is the fifth day which is oshuns favorite #. as i lit it the flame was high but nothing drastic. i also put some john the conquer incense. as i prayed the flame became even higher. it was amazing. the top of the wick became like a little black ball then the flame became almost bigger then the candle itself. all of a sudden the candle fell off the top of the jar. when i put it back the fire was still very high. and the wick had a little gold spark at the tip which turned into another little black ball. once the candle finished it left thick drip wax marks on top. i wish i would have taken a picture. nothing close has happened in the 4 days prior. i feel like the work may be kicking in but as far as the candle falling maybe my boyfriend resisting the actual work. what do you think?

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OK…here’s my honest opinion (and I guess that is why you asked me, right?) First, I am confused as to why to mixed traditions to make a honey jar (without listing herbs and roots) and making it an offering to Ochun?

READERS: Ochun is the Yoruba goddess of love, sexuality, gold, prosperity and all the sweet things in life. Honey is her favorite offering of food – but there are others. Her offerings are done in a series of 5 – with this being the number associated with her – and today (Tuesday, April 21, 2009 would technically be the ‘fifth’ day of the candle burn). Ochun ( pronounced “oh-CHOON”) is sometimes spelled Oshun with an ‘s’ BUT there is no “sh” (like in ‘shell’) in the Yoruban pronunciation of her name. There is another God, Osun (pronounced “oh-SOON”) which also sometimes is confused with Ochun/proper pronounciation. The “sh as in shell” pronounciation is strictly latter day Latino-influenced pronounciation.

The thing that sounds quirky to me is that you are using a Conjure/Hoodoo/Rootwork practice (honey jar) and the Lukimi/Santeria practice of offerings to a Yoruba goddess? Are you familiar to the religion Lukimi/Santeria? Are you well studied in Conjure/Hoodoo/ Rootwork? Why mix practices?

For me, the candle falling off would be an indication of a non-acceptance of the offering or things will not work out as planned. The ultimate decision maker will be the boyfriends reaction to you. You will either see a heightened response to you in a more loving and sexual way or he will be acting the same.

Since there is no indication of roots and herbs named in your letter, I have no idea if they are the appropriate ones to use for you particular situation. Using the John the Conqueror incense is definitely a Conjure/Hoodoo/Rootwork thing.

You state that you ‘feel like the work may be kicking in’ then go with your feelings and watch for signs.

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Readers Questions | More About Popping Noises with Honey Jar Candle

admin — Wed, 11 Mar 2009 13:15:36 +0000

Michael, a reader that inquired a couple of weeks ago about ‘popping’ noises with his honey jar candle love spell, not only gave us his ingredients, but fabulous photos and a link to some video he shot with the noises clearly audible and the wick splitting into two! Amazing!

You may use this link to go to this video he created of the candle burning, along with popping noises!

http://tinypic.com/usermedia.php?uo=2kaonNSDdqShNFkc3TrttA%3D%3D

Michael asked me to give some observations about his candle and it is evident that this was for love, and he indicated that he used pictures of him and her, hairs, rose petals and lodestones.

The interesting thing is how the one wick separated into two flames (see photo). this is a VERY good sign that you will be successful in love with this young lady.

My only thought is that you ‘temper’ the honey jar with either covering the red with a white candle, or the next candle you burn be a pink one. Again, remember red is energy, intense and hot, and you don’t want your new relationship to ‘run red hot’ – or, that you are so sensually overstimulated that there is nothing else but the physical, if you know what I mean. You need affection and romance (pink) and appreciation for each others’ minds (white). So, to keep this relationship more than just the sexual, I would alternated the red with either pink or white candles.

Good Luck and keep us posted on when the wedding date has been set!

Readers Questions | What Does “Popping” Noises Mean in Candleburning?

admin — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 14:05:27 +0000

A reader asks about the noises candle make while burning.

What does it mean when a candle is melting very quick and there is a lot of popping noises? I had a candle (that would normally melt in 3 hours) melted in 40 minutes. Also at the end, there were popping noises and a “big bang” occurred. The flame just exploded and some parts just flew off around the altar. This happened on the honey jar lid.

Thanks

Michael

Michael, your timing was exquisite since I had another ask the very same thing!

In your situation that you described, you have not one but two things happening – a ‘quick burn’ and ‘candles talking’ . You candle that should have taken 3 hours burns in 40 minutes, that means that the intensity of the emotions in regards to the honey jars are intense – you are VERY focused on your end result – the love of the person (or thing) in the honey jar (honey jars can be used for love but also for a job or money). I would consider this that your end result will come fast.

The ‘explosion’ and ‘popping’ noises at the end of the candle burn, given that we are ruling out the physical reason of sizzling oil by products (think of the sizzling of sausages or bacon, as result of excess oil in the pan), and if there was not a lot of oil on the top of the lid, I would consider it a sign of the Spirit of the Intention of the Candle ‘arguing’ with the recipient – as if the one in the honey jar was resisting. The ‘explosion’ would be that your candle ‘broke through’ the barrier to this endeavor or person. I would think that you might have ‘gotten through’ to this person.

All in all, I would consider it a very positive sign. Keep us posted on how long this end result comes about!

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Honey Jar Spell | Now For a Different Kind of Honey Jar Spell…

admin — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 15:09:41 +0000

This person submitted these photos on another group I belong to and since the photos were so fantastic, I asked them to describe to me what was the purpose of the honey jar and I gave her my feelings on observing the photos. This is NOT your normal honey jar spell candle burn! Read on…

Copied straight from my e-mail:

My honey jar is for an affair.
My marriage is falling apart and will be ending in the next couple of months.
In the mean time, my husband and I have no contact. Sex is mechanical and mostly because we “should be doing it” then anything else.

So I decided to attract a married man because he is safe and wont try to break up my marriage and wont want to spend tons of time with me either.

In the honey jar is the paper with our names on it written like usual
2 hairs his and mine
2 rose petals
and some of our “personal concerns” collected after sex.
And of course.. honey. (bold font moderator’s choice)

I use this jar as a bit of a manipulation tool as well. To keep ME safe, I spend about 30 minutes each M/W/F morning and send some energy to keep him only ‘straying with me’ if that makes sense? I dont want him to be sleeping with a bunch of people and if he is willing to cheat on his wife, then he may be willing to cheat ” on me” . And i cant have that. STDs are scary and I have to be a healthy parent.
I send some love energy as well so that this stays the connection it is and doesnt end nasty like a highschool ‘its just sex’ session either.

I put some of that energy into that big candle and it went up quickly.

I use tapers and burn them for HOURS instead of small 1 or 2 hour candles. I also keep the honey jar on my alter. A constant place of power.

I found out first that he had an attraction to me instead of just pulling some one out of thin air as well. So this jar is just basically keeping the attraction strong ( maybe too strong) and renewing our attraction every couple of days. I do add a little bit of love energy mostly to just keep the attraction healthy and safe. If there is a bit of emotional desire behind it, Im thinking it may keep him from straying farther… I recognize that is a bit of manipulation, but it is only to keep things safe.. so hopefully that wont bite me in the behind some day, but if it does… oh well. I knew the consequences when I set up the jar.

Lets see.. homely happy things about me..

I have been practicing energy work for 15 years. Have two familiars, one child. I live in Texas.
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sheesh aint much “happy bunny foo foo ” about me..
HAHAHHA

Name witheld by moderator

The beginning of the Honey Jar Candle Spell with the twin flames. Two lovers!

Flames growing stronger in this second photo of a Honey Jar Spell

Wax is fully engulfed in flames with wick exposed

Flames are getting larger and hotter on this honey jar

Top of Honey Jar. Notice that this jar is in a protective container, on top of the fireplace hearth and it is surrounded by other candles; white for blessing, blue for peace, yellow for success or health, green for money and red for passion.

Flames are out! Notice that a clasp style jelly jar was used for the honey jar.

In addition to this, the last photo of the honey jar would not allow me to put a joke in the caption section abut Elvis singing, “a hunka-hunka burnin’ love”!. It was like the candle was making sure there is no joking around about THIS spell! Watch out!!!

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How to Make a Honey Jar to Sweeten Someone to You & Your Wishes

admin — Mon, 09 Jun 2008 15:22:34 +0000

We are going to get downright sticky today with learning how to make a Honey Jar.

Making a Honey Jar to “Sweeten” someone to you, whether a lover (potential or existing), boss or a cantankerous person has been around for generations. This visual – really a mini altar – is a way to not only have your candle burning for your intentions constantly but is also a way to remind you of your intentions towards them.

Ingredients

Clean Canning or Jelly Jar (or even a pretty cut glass sugar bowl with a flat cover)

Honey

OPTIONAL: Sugar (if you want) Some use white sugar if the target is Caucasian, Light Brown Sugar for Hispanic and Dark Brown Sugar for those who are of African descent.
Oil of Influence, Love Me, Boss Fix, Crown of Success, or any other anointing oil that will bring around positive results.

Herbs to boost the power such as: Red Chili Peppers or Crushed Red Pepper Seeds for “heat”, Cinnamon for “heating things up”, Rose Petals for Love, Basil, Thyme and Allspice for Money drawing.

NOTE: A good source of botanical reference for the use of Herbs in Magic is “Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic” by cat yronwode. It is listed as a traditional formulary giving the spiritual uses of natural herbs, rots, minerals and zoological curios. For more information on obtaining this book, e-mail me at jacqueline (at) tarotbyjacqueline.com and I will help you.

A photo, lock of hair, nail clipping, business card, sexual fluids on a tissue (for lovers), or a reduced size copy of contract, coins, etc. – anything that could be a source of influence for your honey jar.

How To Make A Honey Jar

First, take your glass jar and clean it well, then dry. Anoint with oil the photo, business card or even just the name of the person who you want to “be sweet” to you. Place items – a photo, business card or lock of hair in bottom of jar (maybe for the lover jar, place some rose petals first – like a “bed of roses” – so romantic – then place photo on that). On top of the business card for the boss or that mini copy of the contract folded – place a few coins – I use five – for money drawing properties. Sprinkle the oil and herbs/flowers around on top.
Cover with a few spoons of sugar (optional) of your color variety (see above) and either alternate layers of sugar/honey, sugar/honey, until you get to the top or just fill rest of jar with honey. I always taste a bit of the honey on my finger before pouring as in my tradition the Goddess Ochun (Oshun) was poisoned by honey offered her and therefore she will never again accept any offerings of her favorite substance without the devotees tasting the honey first, ensuring its’ safety.
Close the lid to the jar and tighten it. You will not open it again (unless to disassemble). Take small finger sized pink candles (picture fat birthday candles) and burn them while standing on them on top of the lid. Do this once a day until you get your desired results. Eventually the wax will cover the lid and the sides of the jar. Once you have gained your outcome, keep the jar somewhere where it is undisturbed, bringing it out to relight candles on if the lover is not attentive or the bothersome person “acts up” again.
SEE PHOTO

This particular honey jar is for blessings of peace and clarity and thus we are using a white candle
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