Saint Valentine Love Candle Spell | Patron Saint of Lovers – February 14th

In today’s world, we view Saint Valentine as the Saint who assists us in finding a lover and all the other rituals we have that is associated with February 14th such as giving cards, chocolates, jewelry, or sending flowers from the florist. Roses are the traditional flower to give on this day of lovers. There is a very different reason that San Valentin, or St. Valentine, is associated with love and lovers.

Saint Valentine, born in Italy and was a Holy Priest in Rome, assisted martyrs under persecution and was beheaded on the date that is set aside for lovers – February 14th. Before capture, he assisted St.Marius and family to give aid and safe lodging to those being sought out for their religious beliefs.

Saint Valentine, also known as San Valentin, is associated with lovers in the fact that on February 15th, a heathen festival in honor of their goddess Februata Juno, was held. In part of a custom, boys were to pick out slips of paper with girls’ names on them to court romantically. It is written that on the day after Valentine’s beating and beheading, the boxes where the name billets were gathered were filled with slips of paper with Valentine’s name on them. Since then, he has been associated with love and lovers.

Saint Valentine/San Valentin Love Candle Spell

INGREDIENTS

2 pink glass encased 7-day “novena” or “vigil” candles

Photos of each of you separately, to attach to outside glass of candle

Full name and birth date of each of you, on a slip of paper known as a ‘name paper’.

1 bottle of “Adam and Eve” or “Fire of Love” Anointing Oil

1 Red Rose in vase

1 glass Red or Blush Wine

Pinch of Ground Cinnamon

Clean candle with Lemon Juice or Florida Water as instructed in this blog post, “Candle Spell Candle Preparation Step by Step for Candleburning Success!”. Let set to dry.

Continue to follow steps to candle preparation, including carving oil wells and putting oil in the three holes. Sprinkle a good pinch of ground cinnamon over each candle. Attach name and birth date paper to bottom of candle and photo to each candle. Set a love altar somewhere, as in the bedroom, where you can leave candle lit continuously,setting the rose and the wine next to the two candles. Pray that St. Valentine will make each of you tender and loving only to each other, forsaking all others, until the end of time.

When candles are finished, take photos, name papers, rose petals and wine to the back yard of your home. Dig a small hole and place all in it, pouring the wine over all of the papers and petals. Cover with the dirt and place a good sized rock over it, to make the spot. You may want to consider planting a rose bush over the spot, in remembrance of Saint Valentine.

Filed under: Love Candle Spells,Various Saints Candle Spells

Candle Spell and Poppet for a Young Adult to Move Out and Move On

January 17, 2011 | By admin In Doll Babies, Poppets and Toby Dolls,Honey Jar Spells for Love,Love Candle Spells | Comments(0)

I have encountered many situation and have created candle spells specific for certain situation, but one that I suggested to a client is becoming to manifest really positive energy and my client sent me photos to share with you.

In this situation, the client is in love with a gentleman who is a widower and has one child, a daughter in her early 20′s. The daughter, while graduating from high school, has not moved onto college, nor has she gained employment. It is as if she is ‘stuck’ in a void – both situational and culturally – as the family is Latino and she may have an unspoken message of not leaving her widower father until she marries. She does not leave the home, except to perform household duties, and to my client, it seems she has become the ‘little wife’ , in a sense. My client, a single woman with no children, love this man dearly, but knows the man would never allow their relationship to blossom further without making sure the daughter is on her way.

My client wanted to burn a black doll at my year end banishing negativity burn, as there is some stress and maybe a little animosity between the two women in this man’s life. I suggested that we do not have and send her away forever, but to gently and lovingly assist her into a fabulous new life on her own. Even though my client was scratching her head, I explained that in the future she may need this girl’s assistance, so my client should not ‘burn her bridges’. I said that it would be better, and more subtle, to wish her love and happiness as she moves out. She was willing to give it a try.

First, I suggested to create a poppet or doll in the image as close to the young woman as she could (see photo). I suggested stuffing the doll with sweet things such as a peppermint (for clarity) in the head, rosemary and rose petals (for woman’s courage and love of self) in the body, and maybe to add some cinnamon or red chili peppers (to spice or ‘heat things up’ – not for sex but to get her to hurry it up and enjoy the process). All of these things are either in your garden, spice cabinet and/or can be found in your nearby store.

I then told her to write a small petition paper, explaining that she loves the girls’ father and would want her to allow their relationship to bloom – if she would move on and gain employment or go to college, meet a handsome fella and move into her own apartment, along with driving a zippy new car she paid for herself. The client created a honey jar spell with this intention (see photos) and I suggested to take it one step further and create a diorama of the lifestyle – like a vision board – to place the poppet in when it is not near the honey jar candle, so that to doll will ‘get used to’ having this fine life m clients is wishing for her.

Since the client has created this spell, the daughter has been more civil towards the client and even has asked her to help her do something related to the clients wishes. Since both the client and the intended mans’ families are from the same town in Mexico, they are all traveling to Mexico (no together) to visit. We will have to find out what happens when my client returns!

On another note, since she is in love with the man as well and wants to further their relationship, she is also working a love spell poppet/doll on him, too! (Smart girl!) She created a red doll (remember red for the woo-woo!) and a honey jar for the man, stuffing into the doll a hair net that he wore and left out for her to get (remember, DNA or worn clothing is a good personal concern for candle magick). She keeps his image on her love altar (see photos) when she does not take to doll to her bed, placing it on ‘his’ pillow on ‘his’ side of the bed, and she talks to it as if it is him (one way to manifest something to come true). She told me that he told her that some nights he feels like someone is rubbing his hair (she is – magickally!) and he wonders if she is thinking of him at that time (well, DUH!).

Filed under: Doll Babies, Poppets and Toby Dolls,Honey Jar Spells for Love,Love Candle Spells

Free Candle Spells | Why Your Love Candle Spell Isn’t Working Pt. 3

November 30, 2010 | By admin In Love Candle Spells,Rants and Raves | Comments(1)

This is the third in a three part series in investigating why your love candle spell isn’t working.

To read part one, click the blue words here, “Free Candle Spells | Why Your Love Candle Spell Isn’t Working Pt. 1″.

To read the second part of this series, click here to read, “Free Candle Spells | Why Your Love Candle Spell Isn’t Working Pt. 2″.

So we have covered some reasons that your candle spell wasn’t working with problems that may have existed before you even considered putting flame to a wick. The second part delved into cheap changing of products and the possibility of being a victim of a rip-off artist. Part three rounds up some more things to consider even after you have eliminated the problems brought up in Parts 1 and 2.

This last section focuses on you and your actions in regards to the candle spell. What you do and say will help determine the outcome of the candle spell, and that is why many will tell you to plan, prepare, revise, research and revisit the petition papers, herbs, oils and candles you use.

7. ) Giving vague or accurate information for the reader/spellworker to properly prepare a candle spell. Oh this is a doozy. In the near past, I had someone who contacted me about a candle spell they were considering. Theirs was a ‘Double Big Mac with extra Cheese” – type of issue. I strongly suggest a reading – not only to determine if the work was validated but if I was the ‘One’ who should be performing this spell (something I do ask in my readings with a client). I also ask if the outcomes will be successful because I do not want to have a client “throw good money to the bad” if the outcome will not be what they wanted. Remember – we are petitioning the Higher Power for our best outcome – and if the Almighty does not want the petition to come to its’ fruition, it won’t, plain and simple. So I do the reading for the person, and in it I find multi layers of items that are loosely related, but in the end, not best for the client. The client reveals to me some candle spells that they are doing, substituting one thing for the other (like candles), and it turns out a big mess. I suggest to the client to bite it off like a Big Mac, because you cannot eat one in one bite. I tell them to first determine what is most important to work on, then systematically do candle work for each item. Comes to find out, there is even MORE issues, and the slip up was their e-mails asking for yet more information and it all had to be done be the end of the month!

Readers, be honest with your rootworker/spiritualworker. We cannot do the best for you if you are withholding pertenient information and we use the ‘wrong’ oil, candle or herb. It sets up a situation that you will not be happy with the results and then you’ll bad mouth your worker all over town. We all need to Trust.

8. ) You are fixated or obsessed over the candle spell as it works or the outcome. – One of the most saddest things is when someone has contacted me, waited on considering a candle spell, and then when faced with either a worst situation or they come up against time limits, they are bombarding me with calls and e-mails. Doing research is fine and I encourage it, both for the one doing the spell or reading for you, but also the products suggested to be used. However, when push comes to shove, it is not suggested that you become the ‘elevnth hour’ participant, and then expect hour-by-hour updates on the candle spell. I strongly suggest that if you cannot trust your candle spell caster, either do the spell yourself or do not do anything. Obsessing and worrying about the outcome not only makes you crazy but consumes vast amount of energy that you may need for regular daily use. Light the candle with CONFIDENCE and walk away.

9. ) You tell others about your candle spell work – There was a saying in World War II – “Loose lips sink ships”. When you reveal your candle spell work to others, you set yourself up for speculation and envy, spite and fear – all coming from the listener. Keep your business to yourself. “Nuff said!

10.) You are a “Stalker” or you are harassing the intended in the candle work - Nothing screams “bad outcome” more than a client who either won’t stop or let go – usually because of wanting revenge or destruction of the intended because of hurt, anger or spite. How I personally could have done negative spell work on my ex but I didn’t, because they were their own ‘worst enemy’. My Godmother actually suggested that I BLESS them (scratches head). If I BLESS them, then for sure they will have a good, comfortable life, let down their guard, and eventually I would get my back pay. HEYYY! Guess what? That is happening right now.

If you believe that you cannot live without them or you want them to “go down in flames”, guess what – you’re going down, too. Move on and step up to something/someone better and thank your lucky stars that you are out of the sitation. If they don’t want you as a mate, then sing with me this Motown song, “There’s too many fish in the sea, too many fish in the sea.”