Readers Questions | An Outcome for Eben’s Vinegar Jar Spell

Readers – If you remember a few months ago, Eben began to send in his posts regarding a vinegar jar spell that he created to separate his friend from an emotionally abusive relationship. This came in the other day as his final outcome to the vinegar jar spell. To read his prior posts regarding this spell, click on the Vinegar Jar Spells category on the far right side and catch up

Eben writes:

Well, the vinegar jar proved to be unsuccessful at this time. As you may recall, I went through this elaborate Vinegar Jar technique to break up an deceitful target and one of my best mates. Since this time, there has been hints and little squabbles here and there between them, but nothing permanent. In fact, over three months out, I have been contacted by my friend to hang out the next week, but by the time the next week comes, there is no contact again. Today, I also hear that my friend and the Target at actually heading out of the country together soon.

Did my jar truly fail? Not sure. What did I do wrong in my jar? Well, I think my technique was pretty on par (in my own personal opinion). I think that perhaps I am not that focused. Or simply it is because I did not physically work the jar enough. Yes, I have anxiety and thoughts about the two of them together that could cancel out all my work. It happens to everyone and it is tough to beat.

Where do I go from here? Well.. my thoughts are to flush the contents to my vinegar jar and start a new. Hmmmm

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Readers Questions | Eben’s Vinegar Jar Spell – Week 3

Readers,

This is a continued effort from Eben to keep us informed about his Vinegar Jar spell he conducted on behalf of a friends who is being taken advantage of in their good nature by the “victim” or “target”. Read more about the beginning part of this psells by clicking the “Vinegar Jar Spells” Category on the right.

Thank you

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Eben writes:

…So, my 3 weeks was up on the 6th. I had talked with my friend asking her point blank, but in a nice way, about how her relationship is going with the target. She was very upbeat and said it was going good. I said that I noticed that they didn’t fight so much as some couples and she said that they fight over stupid things, but nothing major. She said other than that. it is good. She still has been seeing her other friends more lately and has taken other means to get home a lot more.

Okay, now this is my primary flaw in the system. In essence, I should be very emotional and angry when I shake the jar and I should let it do it’s thing on autopilot and not think about it. Like anything else in the universe, we have our own internal conflicts that assist us in promoting failure. Since, I am best mates with the target’s mate.. it is something, I probably should’ve left to an outside source. What happens is that when they do talk on the phone in my presence or he actually does come pick her up from work, then my mind goes into overdrive visualizing them together. This pretty much cancels out anything I am trying to focus on when it comes to splitting them apart. Do I like thinking of them together? No. This is something almost everyone does without premeditated actions. It is a response that if you think of a Sweet Tart candy.. most likely your mouth will water without realizing it. Same thing here. There is some hint or notion of them in an evening together.. my mind sees it.

Now, as for the jar itself. This is downright insane. Again, the jar has been heat/vacuum sealed and is placed inside a ziplock back. I have not bothered to look or shake the jar in the past week or so because it was a Waxing moon and really, I would rather focus on more positive aspects during this time. Now, I could’ve swore that I put the jar in right side up when I put it back in my drawer. I could totally be wrong. Either way, I opened my drawer this morning and again, it had leaked. The paper towel I had wrapped it in was soaked and now the jar is only about 2/3s to 1/2 full. I am still baffled by the leak. There is nothing really to keep it from sealing. Perhaps the picture in the lid is preventing it from sealing, but really. I have actually attempted to experiment with the subject at hand. I have taken the same exact kind of jar, filled it with vinegar, heated it, and sealed it as tight as can be by my hands. It is sealed. It does not leak. It does not leak upside down. I have attached pics of the found vinegar vessel. Needless to say, next time I do this, I will not keep it by my sweaters.

My next step was to place the jar in the freezer. I decided to rewrap it. Let my heart pound as it usually does when I think about how just awful the target is. I shook, the jar, declared the two names involved, and placed it in the freezer. I seriously doubt it will freeze. Do I think it will continue to fail? I don’t necessarily think it will fail. What I think will fail me is my mind set. We all have a weak spot for our best friends. We all will have conflicting images of what we do not want happening to haunt what we really want to happen. I work in a busy industry where my only time to meditate is right before bed. Most nights, I am going to sleep within 20 minutes of that. What do I bring this up? Because this is an added factor. If I was doing this for my out of state brother, I could do it and it would do it’s thing and all is good. Again, being close to the subject, I am bombarded with events, conversations, and news between the mate and target that distract me. I need to focus extra hard, if I can. And you know what? if in 3 months there is still nothing? I will do it all over again. I was told this is on God’s time. Not mine. So, if I need to go through the process to prove how much commitment I have to the process. Then that is what I must do.

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The pictures…

The first one is simply the Jar pulled out and placed on the counter exactly how I found it.

The second is the mash that is inside the jar that occurred somewhere within 3 days of shaking it.

Third.. this is more for you scrying folks that might want to read something out of the stain.

Talk to you guys again in about 2 months and a week when this process is completed. If anything really exciting happens, I might hit you guys up again then too. At some point I will have to take pictures of all the ingredients I originally placed into process in the first place. I will attempt to gather those in time.

Eben

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Readers Questions | Vinegar Jar Spell Update (interesting…!)

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Vinegar Jar 3 Day Follow-up by Eben, our reader and spell submitter

Friends,
If you remember back a couple of weeks ago, Eben gave us his version ofthe Vinegar Jar Spell. He is reporting on the happenings as a result of the old adage, “Three Days, Three Weeks, Three Months”. Read on…..

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I was really unsure how to comment on the blog. I attempted, but it left me nowhere to post anything. Anyway. I have decided, if it is okay with you, to post my 3 day, 3 week, and 3 months follow-ups.

It was 3 days actually two Saturdays ago. Talking to my friend (the mate of the target) as I see her daily, there was pretty much a fight the days leading up to me actually performing the Vinegar Jar Spell. I can say.. that the Target only helped my cause or that my energy is probably pretty on point in this situation. So, as for the first official Day after the spell had been put into place, the mate of the target, my friend, had a pretty ho hum and I don’t care outlook about the evening she had planned for the Target. Something really nice, actually. Now, that night they did go out and successfully had fun. And you know what? I am actually glad. I am not glad necessarily that the target and the mate didn’t have a drag out fight, but at the same time I am glad that she did have fun. No matter what we do in someone’s life, we do want them to enjoy life.

The next Jar Moment actually was noticed on the 7th day. The mate contacted the Target to see if he was going to come get her from work and he was aggravated at her. I heard only one side of the conversation and she had excuses for him, but he felt like he was being bothered at work. As for this last week, the mate has taken actions on her own that usually are considered with the Target in mind. So, she is becoming and moving in an independent fashion.. or so, it seems. It is interesting. Usually, she contacts the target throughout the day or he contacts her. She waits for him at night and they plan things together. In the past week, she has driven independently or taking other plans to go home which do not directly involve the Target. He may show up later, but doesn’t seem to be an immediate factor as he used to be for a trip back home from work. She also has been talking to others throughout her day a lot more and focusing less on him.

I was told 3 days for the first signs to show. The signs have been faint, but I feel they are on track. Since the pictures have turned to a pulpy mash, I have not shaken the jar as often. I have also noticed that the nails are clean. I could be shaking the rust off. The 3 razor blades that I failed to mention were also initially slipped into the mix can not be seen at all. Now, here is an odd thing. I had vacuum sealed the jar. I have twisted the lid on so tight that you practically need a wrench to take the lid off. I have also placed the jar into a zip lock bag. The Jar continually leaks. This jar has not been dropped or chipped in any fashion. There is not much that can catch under the lid when I shake it. So, there is not much to be able to drip down, yet.. my jar sits in a puddle that it has chosen to make for itself. Yes, there has to be some amount of gas being created in the mixture. One can also not over look the amount of conflict generating inside the vessel. Whatever energy that is in there is struggling to get out.

I think for the next Full or Waning Moon, I will wrap the jar again and place it in the freezer for an additional element to the situation. See you guys again when the 3 weeks is up.

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Eben,

It would be really cool if you could maybe assemble the contents on a table with the actual jar so that our readers can get an idea of what to expect. If you could do that with your next submission, I am sure they would appreciate that.

It is also interesting that the jar is oozingmaybe about to “Blow it’s Top?” . Looks like there is a festering situation going on and it is “spilling” out and over everywhere, just like your jar. I would be very careful not to spill any drops of that “stuff” in your home.

Great stuff! Keep us posted if any more ‘drama’ happens!


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